I sometimes struggle with self-esteem and challenges of insecurity. I don’t think there’s an easy formula.
But when I’m aiming at those things are that good and bring me genuine joy then the insecurities seem to fade into the background, lose their grip, and transform from an insane steering wheel into just a known annoyance.
It helps me to name those insecurities on paper, in a journal, to face them and then state your intent to live free of them. Bit by bit.